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You Thought the Safer Sex Talk was Tough? Try the Social Distancing Safer Sex Talk
You Thought the Safer Sex Talk was Tough? Try the Social Distancing Safer Sex Talk Jeana Jorgensen Hooking up with someone new often means discussing your sexual history and your preferred safer sex methods. This conversation can feel awkward at the best of times … and now that we’re living in a time of a global pandemic, there are other factors to consider before getting sexy with a new (or old) partner. Safer sex advice from the last few months has ranged from the reminder that solo sex is the safest sex (coming from the New York City Department of…
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Her: How To Put Female Pleasure First (And Why You Might Want To)
Whereas in the past fringe genders and the gender spectrum itself have struggled to gain validation we are slowly, but very surely, making progress when it comes to the acknowledgement and inclusion of the many rather than relying on gender norms. The same can be said about gender equality, which is being approached and considered with new (and broader) cultural vigour. But the inclusion and equality of all genders doesn’t discredit the validity of cisgender, heterosexual identity, nor dynamics and, in this framework, sometimes it’s still some people’s extreme desire to treat their lady (or to be treated as such).
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Fucking On The Upholstery: The Sexual Appeal of the Vintage
Oh, and if your family happens (like mine did) to bestow upon you some 19th century nipple clamps just remember to look, not sample: the idea might be near-irresistible, but most historic pieces have had their time when it comes to practical use.
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Learning my Sexuality
It started with an innocent comment but my friend’s response made it clear it wasn’t the sort of thing you were supposed to say. The way she reacted you would have thought I’d said something really shocking; as she quickly dismissed my comment, reiterated that I “have a boyfriend”, and told me because I liked sex with men I couldn’t possibly be a lesbian. The real kicker was when she said “I know lesbians, they are horrified by the idea of touching a penis, that’s definitely not you.”
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It Ain’t Easy On Top: Aftercare Tips For Your Dominant
Aftercare is a crucial part of the BDSM experience. It makes sure that, after the intensity and mental drifting of a session, a submissive can come back to reality and experience the physical, mental, and emotional care that they require.
