Something that surprisingly is not common knowledge but really should be is that the birth control pill is not just used for birth control. Birth control is health care. I wasn't sexually active when I was 14. The birth control pill is used to help treat acne, endometriosis, irregular periods, and PCOS.
What do you do when you've researched, fact checked, read reviews, and done your deciding, only to find out that your well researched choice was almost the worst possible choice? Well, for starters, you do everything you can not to die. Then you take all of that guilt and self loathing and you chuck it out the window because it is detrimental to your survival.